WCD cards
You’ve just met. What now? Draw a card, ask the question, listen to the answer. You can pass the phone around. Four decks, one for each kind of hello: from easy questions to real conversations.
Open a deck and show the question to the other person or read it aloud. Whoever was asked answers, then you switch.
Cards go from easy to deep. Don’t like one? Skip it; you can always bring it back.
Not sure which deck to start with? “Play” has light, funny questions to break the ice.
Swipe the card aside or tap “Next”
That’s the whole deck
If the conversation is still going, that’s a good sign. Take another deck or start this one over.
Deck progress is saved in this browser.
Quick tests about meeting people
A couple of minutes each. How you meet people, what you’re looking for and which kind of hangout suits you. The main test, your hello color, is separate.
Who do you need?
Not “what you’re like,” but what you’re missing right now: closeness, novelty, freedom or energy.
The first 5 minutes
The impression you most likely make in the first minutes of meeting someone.
What are you really looking for?
Closeness, company for everyday life, new experiences or a spark: what drives you in meeting people right now.
How should people approach you?
Directly, through context, through shared interests or through humor: which first move works with you.
Why do you want to meet again?
What really brings you back to someone after the first meeting.
Your social battery
How much socializing really suits you, and what charges you up or drains you.
The ideal first hangout
Talking, walking, doing something together or improvising: which format brings out the best in you.
What to ask when you meet someone?
Not a test about you, but a generator of five questions that take a conversation past small talk.
Where should the two of you go?
A quick way for two people to find a format for their first hangout. Answer for yourself, or pass the phone back and forth.